Everything in your past has succeeded in bringing you here today
My wife and I were watching one of the episodes of Boston Legal last night. We’ve been binge watching the past couple months. The third time for me, first time for her. It’s one of the best shows in the … Read more …
I saw a video tonight that made me quite emotional with its content, because in this video is a man and a woman who love each other. She looks after him in a way that is so special to her, … Read more …
One of the things I used to do a LOT over the years was write articles about how to have better relationships and dating experiences. With all the books I’ve read on how to have better relationships, and all the … Read more …
When I was a child I never had any friends, and my parents resented my presence. I didn’t really know what human connections were until I was in my 20’s, and I’ve been learning more and more about them ever since. What … Read more …
I’ve had a few people over the past few months tell me that I should write about dating and having relationships with Asian women, something that many white guys would probably be very interested in learning more about. I’m certainly … Read more …
Have you ever tried being honest for a day, and just telling people around you what you think or feel about them or the situations you’re in? If you have, how has it worked out for you? Radical honesty is what … Read more …
I know there’s quite a few people out there who think that my black and white thinking is some kind of disadvantage. Maybe it is, I don’t know. If all I’ve known is this way of thinking, and I have … Read more …
We hear all the time about how we can change the world if only we smiled more and brightened someone’s day. It’s true though.
Think about it – someone is walking along, minding their own business, thinking about how miserable their life is, and how they just want to kill someone. Truth be told, they’re already planning how to kill their husband / wife / boss / neighbour in such a way that no one will ever know.
For all kinds of different reasons, we may end up in the wrong relationship with someone. When things go bad, we try to hold on to those relationships because it’s important to us to try and show our commitment by … Read more …
One of the things that’s become clear to me now that I’m leaving Canberra and heading off to Melbourne is how close my friends are. Some of them have expressed their sadness that I’m going. One of my friends told … Read more …
Discovering you have passive aggressive behaviours and responses to the point that it’s become a personality disorder (PAPD, or Passive Aggressive Personality Disorder) can be something of a shock. When I discovered this about myself it left me depressed for … Read more …
It feels like such a long time ago now, but it was only a few years ago that I explored the nature of relationships and sexuality within the BDSM lifestyle. I enjoyed what I learned and experienced, especially what I … Read more …
Look around you at the people you hang out with. How many of them seek to be with you, compared to how many you seek to be with? If you didn’t keep in touch with them, would they try to … Read more …