Everything in your past has succeeded in bringing you here today
Many people in relationships, both men and women, have huge issues with their partner having friendships with the opposite sex, often experiencing jealousy at the thought. If you’re someone who often finds yourself suspicious or jealous about your partner’s opposite-sex … Read more …
One of the things we strive for in our lives is meaningful connections with other people or, to use the more common phrase, meaningful relationships. ‘No man is an island’, as the saying goes, which means that only when human beings … Read more …
It’s been over two weeks now since I got married and, strangely enough, I don’t feel that different. All that’s changed is that I have a wife now instead of a fiancee. Well… Maybe I feel a bit more relaxed … Read more …
On New Year’s Eve 2012 I asked Fanfan to marry me, and in just 3 days, on the afternoon of October 28, we’ll be getting married. This past 10 months has been quite a ride! To be honest, I’ll be … Read more …
I was just reading something that was talking about a study having found that men find women who smile to be more attractive than women who don’t smile. Well, duh. Interestingly, the study also found that women found men more … Read more …
I was reading about one man’s exploration into picking up women (Beyond pickup – have your cake and eat it too?) and I was thinking about it in relation to my own experiences and observations over the years. What I’ve … Read more …
What is this ‘free market of sexuality’, I can hear you asking? Simply, it’s the reality out there that most people don’t want to acknowledge, especially if they believe that they’re not highly desired in the market. But they’re aware … Read more …
Over the recent years I’ve discovered that I’ve become something of an ‘expert’ on passive aggression. After having experienced it for most of my life, realised it, understood it, and overcome it, I have a unique perspective on what it … Read more …
My fiancee, Fanfan, is Chinese. She’s awesome. It’s why we’re engaged to be married. A big part of our relationship is mutual respect, and it’s‘respect’ that I wanted to write about today. In the past I’ve had relationships with both Caucasian … Read more …
Men with debilitating passive aggression in their relationships usually find it’s because of their inability to accept responsibility. This makes healing that much more difficult. You can’t heal it if you think you’re not responsible for it. The best thing … Read more …
I guess it started a year ago, when that woman wanted to be my submissive. It started a series of events that ended up being all about my own evolution as a person. I’ve been writing in this blog … Read more …
I’ve recently met a woman who wanted to be dominated, and she thought I would be a good candidate for that. I agreed with her. How’s that for an intro? 🙂 As this blog is about my life, I, of … Read more …
By relationship, I mean two people coming together in love, choosing to spend their lives together as a couple, partners in crime, all that kind of thing. In my ‘life of research and practice’, I’ve come to the conclusion that … Read more …